Submitted by: Alan
This Agreement between husband and Wife covers the terms of the training of
husband by his Wife to the optimal level of utilitarian and intimate
service, as judged by the Wife. The Wife may use any and all means of
enforcement as described herein necessary to achieve the results she
desires. It is the intention of both parties that the husband shall become
the sex slave of Wife for the term of this Agreement, to be formally trained
to serve her, and that the Wife commits to firmly and consistently using
whatever force may be necessary to accomplish this goal.
- Husband admits that he had difficulty staying focused and completing tasks
that he knows he should complete.
- Husband admits he has not provided Wife with the affection, support, love,
and deference she deserves and wishes to be trained to treat her as the
superior She is.
- To remedy past faults and any other faults Wife identifies, husband
desires to submit to his Wife's authority and desires to give his Wife all
tools necessary to forcefully correct his behavior and train him to serve
the Wife as she sees fit. Training tools at her disposal specifically
include, but are not limited to, orgasm denial, humiliation, restraint, and
- Husband acknowledges that Wife undertakes the duties and role herein
described at husband's insistence and that Wife did not compel or coerce
- Husband acknowledges that the purpose of this Agreement is to provide
complete satisfaction to the Wife and that she shall have no responsibility
for husband's satisfaction.
- In consideration of husband's commitment to be trained, Wife commits to
physically discipline husband to compel his specific performance under this
- Wife is willing to undertake the training and discipline of husband as
described herein and enthusiastically administer whatever discipline is
necessary to train husband.
- Husband wishes to be trained and disciplined by Wife according to this
The term of this Agreement shall be for one year. If the Agreement is not
cancelled by either party at the end of the first year, it shall become
In consideration of Wife's execution of this agreement to train husband as
specified in this Agreement, husband will pay Wife $500 at the time of
signing and $59 per month thereafter, payable at the beginning of every
fourth weekly discipline session (see below).
Husband will wear a locked chastity device acceptable to Wife at all times,
except as provided herein. If requested by Wife, husband will acquaint Wife
with the various models and types and agrees to obtain and be restrained in
any device specified by Wife.
Numbers shown below represent the Minimum Punishment Penalties which accrue
during the week for specific infractions. One MPP = 1 stroke of the whip.
MPPs earned during the week must be worked off during that week's punishment
session. Each week, husband automatically accrues 10 MPPs simply because he
is Wife's trainee.
- Husband is responsible for daily cleaning of device.
- Husband will notify the Wife immediately of any concerns regarding
function or cleanliness of device.
- The Wife will supervise at least one removal of device in a seven-day
period for cleaning and shaving.
- Husband agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Wife, including
restraints if deemed necessary.
- Husband agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly
to keep genital area free from hair. 10
- Husband agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all
cleanings unless specifically ordered not to by Wife. 20
- Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for
medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no sexual
releases are permitted and husband agrees once medical condition is
rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.
- Wife will retain all keys to said device and all other devices, locks,
- Husband will not attempt to defeat the device in any way or possess any
- Wife will make one emergency key available to Husband for use in medical
emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive
bodily harm may be present to Husband.
- Husband agrees that in such emergency he will notify Wife immediately and
that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or
carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
- Husband agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Husband will
re-secure device immediately and notify Wife of said action. 10
- Husband shall have no sexual release without the explicit permission of
- Wife agrees that husband will be entitled to at least three releases in
any sixty-day period, provided his service meets the requirements set by
Wife. Releases will be for a period of no less than 8 hours but no more than
- Wife is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out.
- Husband acknowledges and agrees that Wife has certain sexual needs that
may need fulfilled and such releases for Wife do not constitute a release
- Husband agrees to immediately and enthusiastically satisfy Wife by any and
all means Wife requests for sexual and sensual gratification. 10
- Husband agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained
as determined by Wife.
- Husband agrees that Wife may release husband for the means of sexual play
but that no orgasm is permitted unless Wife specifically permits one.
- Husband must always ask for permission to ejaculate. 20
- Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to)
strap-ones, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Wife.
- Husband agrees that Wife may use devices mentioned above in addition to
other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to
such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband
is told by Wife to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result
in punishment both immediate and future.)
- Husband agrees that Wife may release Husband out of good nature and that
such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.
- Husband agrees to abide by all directions from Wife during such releases.
- Husband agrees to re-secure device upon command from Wife. 20
As deemed of value in training by Wife, or for her amusement and humiliation
- If husband is caught by Wife wearing panties, he will receive an immediate
- Wife agrees that she will not require clothing that would be detrimental
to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion,
interfere with work duties, or that would unintentionally cause public
humiliation for Husband.
- Husband acknowledges that Wife may adorn herself in various clothing to
tease and/or torment Husband and that Husband is not entitled to a sexual
release because of such adornment.
- At any time, Wife may blindfold husband and use permanent markers to
decorate husband's genitals in any way she sees fit.
- Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child
development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the
bedroom will have no effect on terms of this Agreement, and that such
decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.
- Husband agrees and understands that Wife may use various methods to tease
and torment Husband at any time. Furthermore, Husband understands that he
has no say in such teasing and that Wife may continue at will and, in fact,
husband desires that his limits be tested in this area.
- Wife understands that she is free to receive any form of sexual
gratification needed from Husband during periods of confinement and husband
promises to provide same, enthusiastically and to the best of his ability.
- Husband agrees to disclose truthfully, when ordered by Wife, any and all
fantasies he may have in mind. 10
- Husband is aware that rewards - up to and including sexual release - are
given for good behavior including but not limited to performing duties as
specified by Wife, pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other
methods. Penalties shall accrue if these events are not forthcoming. 10
- Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed
during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made
unilaterally by Wife.
Penalties and Punishments
Wife agrees that husband's deviation from contract will result in mandatory
punishments and discipline to obtain desired behavior.
- Breach of contract by Wife will constitute a cancellation of contract
without penalty to Wife.
- Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from
- Breach of performance by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the
Wife as outlined below.
- Unauthorized removal of device will result in a certain thirty-day period
of lock up and denial for husband. Absolutely no sexual releases will be
allowed for husband during this penalty period and husband may not discuss
the subject of sex.
- Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result
in a certain forty-five day period of lock up and denial for husband. Again,
absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for husband during this
penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Wife
- Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation,
servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Wife at
any time to correct or punish infractions from contract or simply for Wife's
entertainment or at her whim.
- Husband agrees that failure to accept punishment for infractions is means
for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead
to other detrimental behavior on part of Wife. 50
To reinforce correct behavior, Wife may, from time to time and at Her total
discretion, reward husband for good behavior by allowing him a certain
number of minutes to masterbate under her supervision. Husband must
instantly strip completely when ordered to and wife must keep all her
clothes on. Wife will give husband the key to unlock his chastity belt and
start the clock. The husband is never allowed to ejaculate during reward
sessions, but may get as close as he likes. As soon as the time is up, the
chastity belt must be replaced. The husband is never told how many minutes
If keys are not already in the Wife's possession, upon signing of contract
husband is to immediately secure said device and hand over all keys to Wife.
Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.
Miscellaneous terms and conditions to further clarify the relationship
The Wife is expected to use any and all means at her disposal to motivate
husband to willingly and eagerly serve her for her pleasure and submit to
her will. Failing that approach, she may use whatever force is necessary to
deepen his worshipful submission to her, which is the goal of this Agreement
and the sworn duty of the Wife.
To insure a successful marriage and to assure the husband is properly
trained to meet the requirements of the Wife, the husband will agree to the
following regarding the penis, which will now be called the "marital penis":
- The Wife will have complete ownership and control of the marital penis.
- The Wife will decide if and when the marital penis will be allowed to
ejaculate. She may deny giving permission for any period at her sole
- The Wife may hint at or even promise relief, but in most all cases change
her mind later and refuse.
- The Wife will decide the method used to cause the marital penis to
ejaculate. She may, for example, have the husband masturbate in her
presence, or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her
- The husband is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing
of the marital penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects
(except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated
by the Wife. 10
- The husband is not permitted to touch the marital penis without
permission, except to shave his penis and balls under the Wife's
supervision. The husband must keep his genitals free of hair at all times.
- The husband will wear a chastity belt when ordered by Wife. Wearing the
chastity belt symbolizes the Wife's absolute domination and control of the
- The husband is not permitted to touch any Female or expose himself to any
Female unless directed to do so by the Wife.
- Husband agrees to purchase and use according to Wife's instructions any
disciplinary equipment that Wife feels may be necessary to further his
training and obedience. Husband must subtly bring the existence of such
training materials and equipment to the attention of Wife.
- As training progresses, the Wife shall raise her standards of performance,
adjust MPPs, and make any adjustments she feels necessary to achieve A+
behavior in husband.
- The husband is not allowed to put a lock on his balls. 10
To insure a successful marriage, the Wife has the following rights:
The Wife has complete ownership and control of the marital penis and She and
only She will decide when it will be touched, rubbed, sucked or placed into
or on any object whether animate or inanimate and when or even if it may
The Wife requires the husband to wear a chastity device on the marital penis
that may eliminate engorgement of the marital penis, touching of the marital
penis, and has absolute control of ejaculation.
The Wife has the right to deny ejaculation for the entire term of this
Agreement or to deny ejaculation until husband's training is completed.
Should the Wife instruct that the marital penis be allowed to ejaculate, in
order to reaffirm and strengthen the submission of the husband to the Wife,
the Wife has the right to dictate the method of recycling of the ejaculate.
The husband must always ask for permission before any ejaculation and agrees
to follow Wife's instructions. Wive will intentionally deny permission in
The Wife has the right to dictate any method of recycling of the ejaculate
in any way She sees fit to further the husband's submissive training and
obedience through the use of humiliation.
The Wife has the right to demand sexual pleasure from the husband at any
time without any reciprocal duties, which may include but not be limited to
cunnilingus, fornication and body worship.
Since the Wife no longer needs the marital penis for satisfaction, She may
seek other means of satisfaction.
Upon demand, the Wife has the right to have Her pussy licked clean by the
Wife may instruct husband to be the dominant one and act accordingly, at her
whim. Husband must comply. Wife must provide specific instruction or
training in her desired rendition of this role. 20
At any time indicated by the Wife, but without the suggestion of the
husband, the husband shall immediately strip and kneel before the Wife, or
take any position demanded by the Wife, either restrained or not.
The Wife has the right to administer punishment spankings at anytime, for
any reason, including no reason at all. 20
To maintain discipline, the Wife will spank the husband at least once a week
during the scheduled discipline session.
To insure a successful marriage, the husband's dress code is as follows:
For her entertainment and to further the humiliation necessary to strengthen
the training, the Wife sets the rules that dictate what her husband shall
wear. For example:
- The husband may be required to remove all clothes after a set time of day
or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
- The husband may be required to wear clothes that allow him to be exposed
after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after
- Sexual devices such as butt plugs, chastity devices, rope binding,
handcuffs, etc. are considered clothing.
- Wife may, for her entertainment, require husband to wear a slave collar
and leash, an apron, or thong
- Instructing the husband to wear clothes only suitable for women or
sissified men. This may include under clothes such as panties or bra or over
clothes such as a dress or skirt.
- When alone at home and the temperature is adequate, husband may be
instructed to wear only his apron.
The husband is required to advise the Wife when his workday is easy and he
is available to service the Wife.
To insure a successful marriage, and to train the husband to meet the Wife's
high standards, the Wife will punish the husband for any of the following
infractions. This is a minimal guide only and does not limit the Wife to
decide to punish for other infractions or for her entertainment:
- Not following instructions or not completing job assignments to Wife's
- Making any reference to sex, submission, or being a slave on Tuesday,
Wednesday, or Thursday, except that he will present himself on demand to his
Wife for punishment and job assignments at her command. 10
- Not satisfying his Wife when directed to do so. 20
- Not following the dress code. 10
- Complaining or forbidding the Wife to have sex outside the marriage as is
Her right. 50
- Touching his penis. 20
- Ejaculating without permission. 50
- Asking for sexual favors from any Female, including the Wife. 20
- Failure to anticipate the Wife's needs for comfort and affection. 10
- Failure to read his Wife's mind in regard to any matter. 10
To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Wife may punish the husband as
follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Wife's choice of
punishment which is only limited by the Wife's imagination:
- Binding him to the bed or other object for extended periods of time.
During this time she may spank or whip the husband's body. The penis or
balls may be bound and/or stretched with any device the Wife chooses. This
will possibly increase the size of the substandard puny marital penis.
- Restraining him with ropes, belts, chains or handcuffs
- Prolonging the husband's chastity period
- Applying pressure to the husband's balls to create discomfort. Since the
husband does not own the marital penis and balls, the level of pressure
exerted on the balls is entirely up to the Wife's discretion.
To insure a successful chastity marriage, the husband acknowledges that the
following are privileges, not punishments:
- Satisfying his Wife, whenever and however She demands.
- Allowing the Wife to withhold her permission for his ejaculation to
improve the marriage by making him more attentive and responsive.
- Cleaning his Wife's pussy with his mouth on Her demand and after
- Dress code including chastity devices.
- Punishment administered by his Wife or Her designee.
To insure a successful chastity marriage:
The Wife has the right to change or add to this contract at will and the
husband must comply with the new conditions as if they were in the initial
agreement set forth here.
The husband does not have the right to change any conditions under this
contract without the prior written permission of the Wife.
To enforce compliance with this Agreement through possible humiliation, the
Wife has the right to expose the existence and content of this Agreement and
the slave status of husband to anyone. Wife may order husband to drop his
pants and show the chastity belt. 50
The husband must be completely naked when signing this Agreement and the
Wife must be fully clothed so that the new power relationship is clear and
Upon signing this Agreement, husband will provide Wife with a set of
permanent markers, blindfold himself and present his genitals to Wife so
that She may decorate her property appropriately.
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