Training Agreement

Submitted by: Alan

This Agreement between husband and Wife covers the terms of the training of husband by his Wife to the optimal level of utilitarian and intimate service, as judged by the Wife. The Wife may use any and all means of enforcement as described herein necessary to achieve the results she desires. It is the intention of both parties that the husband shall become the sex slave of Wife for the term of this Agreement, to be formally trained to serve her, and that the Wife commits to firmly and consistently using whatever force may be necessary to accomplish this goal.


  • Husband admits that he had difficulty staying focused and completing tasks that he knows he should complete.
  • Husband admits he has not provided Wife with the affection, support, love, and deference she deserves and wishes to be trained to treat her as the superior She is.
  • To remedy past faults and any other faults Wife identifies, husband desires to submit to his Wife's authority and desires to give his Wife all tools necessary to forcefully correct his behavior and train him to serve the Wife as she sees fit. Training tools at her disposal specifically include, but are not limited to, orgasm denial, humiliation, restraint, and corporal punishment.
  • Husband acknowledges that Wife undertakes the duties and role herein described at husband's insistence and that Wife did not compel or coerce husband's participation.
  • Husband acknowledges that the purpose of this Agreement is to provide complete satisfaction to the Wife and that she shall have no responsibility for husband's satisfaction.
  • In consideration of husband's commitment to be trained, Wife commits to physically discipline husband to compel his specific performance under this Agreement.
  • Wife is willing to undertake the training and discipline of husband as described herein and enthusiastically administer whatever discipline is necessary to train husband.
  • Husband wishes to be trained and disciplined by Wife according to this Agreement.


The term of this Agreement shall be for one year. If the Agreement is not cancelled by either party at the end of the first year, it shall become permanent.

Signing Bonus

In consideration of Wife's execution of this agreement to train husband as specified in this Agreement, husband will pay Wife $500 at the time of signing and $59 per month thereafter, payable at the beginning of every fourth weekly discipline session (see below).

Chastity Device

Husband will wear a locked chastity device acceptable to Wife at all times, except as provided herein. If requested by Wife, husband will acquaint Wife with the various models and types and agrees to obtain and be restrained in any device specified by Wife.

Numbers shown below represent the Minimum Punishment Penalties which accrue during the week for specific infractions. One MPP = 1 stroke of the whip. MPPs earned during the week must be worked off during that week's punishment session. Each week, husband automatically accrues 10 MPPs simply because he is Wife's trainee.


  • Husband is responsible for daily cleaning of device.
  • Husband will notify the Wife immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.
  • The Wife will supervise at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.
  • Husband agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Wife, including restraints if deemed necessary.
  • Husband agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly to keep genital area free from hair. 10
  • Husband agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings unless specifically ordered not to by Wife. 20
  • Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no sexual releases are permitted and husband agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.


  • Wife will retain all keys to said device and all other devices, locks, restraints.
  • Husband will not attempt to defeat the device in any way or possess any keys.
  • Wife will make one emergency key available to Husband for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to Husband.
  • Husband agrees that in such emergency he will notify Wife immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
  • Husband agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Husband will re-secure device immediately and notify Wife of said action. 10

Sexual Release

  • Husband shall have no sexual release without the explicit permission of Wife. 20
  • Wife agrees that husband will be entitled to at least three releases in any sixty-day period, provided his service meets the requirements set by Wife. Releases will be for a period of no less than 8 hours but no more than 24 hours.
  • Wife is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out.
  • Husband acknowledges and agrees that Wife has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Wife do not constitute a release for Husband.
  • Husband agrees to immediately and enthusiastically satisfy Wife by any and all means Wife requests for sexual and sensual gratification. 10
  • Husband agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Wife.
  • Husband agrees that Wife may release husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted unless Wife specifically permits one.
  • Husband must always ask for permission to ejaculate. 20
  • Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ones, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Wife.
  • Husband agrees that Wife may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband is told by Wife to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)

Non-Sexual Releases

  • Husband agrees that Wife may release Husband out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.
  • Husband agrees to abide by all directions from Wife during such releases. 10
  • Husband agrees to re-secure device upon command from Wife. 20


As deemed of value in training by Wife, or for her amusement and humiliation of husband,

  • If husband is caught by Wife wearing panties, he will receive an immediate 10 strokes.
  • Wife agrees that she will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would unintentionally cause public humiliation for Husband.
  • Husband acknowledges that Wife may adorn herself in various clothing to tease and/or torment Husband and that Husband is not entitled to a sexual release because of such adornment.
  • At any time, Wife may blindfold husband and use permanent markers to decorate husband's genitals in any way she sees fit.

General Understandings

  • Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this Agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.
  • Husband agrees and understands that Wife may use various methods to tease and torment Husband at any time. Furthermore, Husband understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Wife may continue at will and, in fact, husband desires that his limits be tested in this area.
  • Wife understands that she is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from Husband during periods of confinement and husband promises to provide same, enthusiastically and to the best of his ability. 10
  • Husband agrees to disclose truthfully, when ordered by Wife, any and all fantasies he may have in mind. 10
  • Husband is aware that rewards - up to and including sexual release - are given for good behavior including but not limited to performing duties as specified by Wife, pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other methods. Penalties shall accrue if these events are not forthcoming. 10
  • Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made unilaterally by Wife.

Penalties and Punishments

Wife agrees that husband's deviation from contract will result in mandatory punishments and discipline to obtain desired behavior.

  • Breach of contract by Wife will constitute a cancellation of contract without penalty to Wife.
  • Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from device.
  • Breach of performance by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the Wife as outlined below.
    • Unauthorized removal of device will result in a certain thirty-day period of lock up and denial for husband. Absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for husband during this penalty period and husband may not discuss the subject of sex.
    • Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result in a certain forty-five day period of lock up and denial for husband. Again, absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for husband during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Wife
    • Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Wife at any time to correct or punish infractions from contract or simply for Wife's entertainment or at her whim.
    • Husband agrees that failure to accept punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behavior on part of Wife. 50


To reinforce correct behavior, Wife may, from time to time and at Her total discretion, reward husband for good behavior by allowing him a certain number of minutes to masterbate under her supervision. Husband must instantly strip completely when ordered to and wife must keep all her clothes on. Wife will give husband the key to unlock his chastity belt and start the clock. The husband is never allowed to ejaculate during reward sessions, but may get as close as he likes. As soon as the time is up, the chastity belt must be replaced. The husband is never told how many minutes he has.

If keys are not already in the Wife's possession, upon signing of contract husband is to immediately secure said device and hand over all keys to Wife. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.

Miscellaneous terms and conditions to further clarify the relationship

The Wife is expected to use any and all means at her disposal to motivate husband to willingly and eagerly serve her for her pleasure and submit to her will. Failing that approach, she may use whatever force is necessary to deepen his worshipful submission to her, which is the goal of this Agreement and the sworn duty of the Wife.

To insure a successful marriage and to assure the husband is properly trained to meet the requirements of the Wife, the husband will agree to the following regarding the penis, which will now be called the "marital penis":

  • The Wife will have complete ownership and control of the marital penis.
  • The Wife will decide if and when the marital penis will be allowed to ejaculate. She may deny giving permission for any period at her sole discretion.
  • The Wife may hint at or even promise relief, but in most all cases change her mind later and refuse.
  • The Wife will decide the method used to cause the marital penis to ejaculate. She may, for example, have the husband masturbate in her presence, or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her designee.
  • The husband is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing of the marital penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects (except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated by the Wife. 10
  • The husband is not permitted to touch the marital penis without permission, except to shave his penis and balls under the Wife's supervision. The husband must keep his genitals free of hair at all times. 10
  • The husband will wear a chastity belt when ordered by Wife. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the Wife's absolute domination and control of the marital penis.
  • The husband is not permitted to touch any Female or expose himself to any Female unless directed to do so by the Wife.
  • Husband agrees to purchase and use according to Wife's instructions any disciplinary equipment that Wife feels may be necessary to further his training and obedience. Husband must subtly bring the existence of such training materials and equipment to the attention of Wife.
  • As training progresses, the Wife shall raise her standards of performance, adjust MPPs, and make any adjustments she feels necessary to achieve A+ behavior in husband.
  • The husband is not allowed to put a lock on his balls. 10

To insure a successful marriage, the Wife has the following rights:

The Wife has complete ownership and control of the marital penis and She and only She will decide when it will be touched, rubbed, sucked or placed into or on any object whether animate or inanimate and when or even if it may ejaculate.

The Wife requires the husband to wear a chastity device on the marital penis that may eliminate engorgement of the marital penis, touching of the marital penis, and has absolute control of ejaculation.

The Wife has the right to deny ejaculation for the entire term of this Agreement or to deny ejaculation until husband's training is completed.

Should the Wife instruct that the marital penis be allowed to ejaculate, in order to reaffirm and strengthen the submission of the husband to the Wife, the Wife has the right to dictate the method of recycling of the ejaculate. The husband must always ask for permission before any ejaculation and agrees to follow Wife's instructions. Wive will intentionally deny permission in most cases.

The Wife has the right to dictate any method of recycling of the ejaculate in any way She sees fit to further the husband's submissive training and obedience through the use of humiliation.

The Wife has the right to demand sexual pleasure from the husband at any time without any reciprocal duties, which may include but not be limited to cunnilingus, fornication and body worship.

Since the Wife no longer needs the marital penis for satisfaction, She may seek other means of satisfaction.

Upon demand, the Wife has the right to have Her pussy licked clean by the husband.

Wife may instruct husband to be the dominant one and act accordingly, at her whim. Husband must comply. Wife must provide specific instruction or training in her desired rendition of this role. 20

At any time indicated by the Wife, but without the suggestion of the husband, the husband shall immediately strip and kneel before the Wife, or take any position demanded by the Wife, either restrained or not.

The Wife has the right to administer punishment spankings at anytime, for any reason, including no reason at all. 20

To maintain discipline, the Wife will spank the husband at least once a week during the scheduled discipline session.

Dress Code

To insure a successful marriage, the husband's dress code is as follows:

For her entertainment and to further the humiliation necessary to strengthen the training, the Wife sets the rules that dictate what her husband shall wear. For example:

  • The husband may be required to remove all clothes after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
  • The husband may be required to wear clothes that allow him to be exposed after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
  • Sexual devices such as butt plugs, chastity devices, rope binding, handcuffs, etc. are considered clothing.
  • Wife may, for her entertainment, require husband to wear a slave collar and leash, an apron, or thong
  • Instructing the husband to wear clothes only suitable for women or sissified men. This may include under clothes such as panties or bra or over clothes such as a dress or skirt.
  • When alone at home and the temperature is adequate, husband may be instructed to wear only his apron.

The husband is required to advise the Wife when his workday is easy and he is available to service the Wife.

To insure a successful marriage, and to train the husband to meet the Wife's high standards, the Wife will punish the husband for any of the following infractions. This is a minimal guide only and does not limit the Wife to decide to punish for other infractions or for her entertainment:

  • Not following instructions or not completing job assignments to Wife's satisfaction. 10
  • Making any reference to sex, submission, or being a slave on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday, except that he will present himself on demand to his Wife for punishment and job assignments at her command. 10
  • Not satisfying his Wife when directed to do so. 20
  • Not following the dress code. 10
  • Complaining or forbidding the Wife to have sex outside the marriage as is Her right. 50
  • Touching his penis. 20
  • Ejaculating without permission. 50
  • Asking for sexual favors from any Female, including the Wife. 20
  • Failure to anticipate the Wife's needs for comfort and affection. 10
  • Failure to read his Wife's mind in regard to any matter. 10

To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Wife may punish the husband as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Wife's choice of punishment which is only limited by the Wife's imagination:

  • Spanking
  • Whipping
  • Binding him to the bed or other object for extended periods of time. During this time she may spank or whip the husband's body. The penis or balls may be bound and/or stretched with any device the Wife chooses. This will possibly increase the size of the substandard puny marital penis.
  • Restraining him with ropes, belts, chains or handcuffs
  • Prolonging the husband's chastity period
  • Applying pressure to the husband's balls to create discomfort. Since the husband does not own the marital penis and balls, the level of pressure exerted on the balls is entirely up to the Wife's discretion.

To insure a successful chastity marriage, the husband acknowledges that the following are privileges, not punishments:

  • Satisfying his Wife, whenever and however She demands.
  • Allowing the Wife to withhold her permission for his ejaculation to improve the marriage by making him more attentive and responsive.
  • Cleaning his Wife's pussy with his mouth on Her demand and after intercourse.
  • Dress code including chastity devices.
  • Punishment administered by his Wife or Her designee.

To insure a successful chastity marriage:

The Wife has the right to change or add to this contract at will and the husband must comply with the new conditions as if they were in the initial agreement set forth here.

The husband does not have the right to change any conditions under this contract without the prior written permission of the Wife.

To enforce compliance with this Agreement through possible humiliation, the Wife has the right to expose the existence and content of this Agreement and the slave status of husband to anyone. Wife may order husband to drop his pants and show the chastity belt. 50

The husband must be completely naked when signing this Agreement and the Wife must be fully clothed so that the new power relationship is clear and established.

Upon signing this Agreement, husband will provide Wife with a set of permanent markers, blindfold himself and present his genitals to Wife so that She may decorate her property appropriately.

Husband's Signature
Wife's Signature

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