A Trio of Failed Chastity Belts - Frustration but now DenialSubmitted by: Silverfish
Updated 06-Sep-27, corrected actual costs
It all started, quite naturally of course with Altarboy's fabulous website. I had been visiting it for a number of years, and it has been on my bookmark list for ages. I had known since junior high that I was kinky and that I was into bondage and that sort of thing, but I did not learn until later about chastity belts.
At first I was only interested in women being chastized, but that changed quickly enough. After years of fantasizing and reading stories I decided to order my first chastity belt. I was 18 at the time, just barely legal and had no one to play with (which may have turned out to my favor). I ordered a CB-2000.
I don't think that's too harsh a word to describe the device. It make be a very pretty and very expensive piece of junk, but it was just that, junk. If anyone were to ask me now I would suggest to them to save their money, because the CB2K is best in the plastic recycling bin.
Not only did I discover almost immediately that the CB2K was insecure (the oh so common pull out problem that anyone reading this can lookup on your website), but it was also incredibly uncomfortable to wear. Regardless of the positioning, size, amount of lubrication, pin-size or spacers the device cauesd, within minutes of putting it on, an intense burning sensation which I could only explain as being caused by the way it pulled the testicles and scrotum away from the body.
It had another problem. I also learned within a week (not that I could wear the CB2K for more then 30 minutes at a time anyways), that you can rub between the bars of the CB2K and achieve orgasm, even if it is somewhat less the comfortable.
I stashed the CB2K in my night stand and never used it again. It had cost me about 300$ CDN, and I sold it on Ebay that summer for under 100$ CDN.
THE NEOSTEEL TOTAL CHASTITY BELT:
What I learned fromt he CB2K experience was that you very much get what you pay for. This time I was going to spend a great deal of money to try and get something secure.
I ordered the Neosteel measuring kit and instructions. And took the measurements. The problem was, I rushed into it. I didn't take the time to ask questions or to double check my measurements. I was an idiot.
When the belt arrived, I discovered it was totally unwearable. Nearly all of my measures were off. I ended up in an mIRC chatroom discussing my problem and learned very quickly from other owners of steel chastity belts that they do not come ready to use out of the box. It takes months of fine tuning to even get a belt to the point where you can sleep while wearing it in relative comfort.
You have to bend every single piece just right. Sometimes you bend too much and have to undo your changes. Sometimes you can't figure out what you just did wrong and actually have to bend the belt back to the original shape and start from scratch. Sometimes, as I discovered, you run a finger over one of the locking holes and can shave or cut yourself on a sharp edge you'd never even know was there. To make matters even worse all the taking appart and putting back together of the belt creates some rather nasty wear-and-tear. The plastic on the coasted penis tub wears off first and the mirror polish of the front sheild becomes ruined from keys scratching it, and the front secondary shield rubbing just wrong.
To make matters worse you have to bend the waist band, the crotch band, the penis tube, the secondary front sheild, and the rear shield. Sometimes, when you finish a bend you're lucky if the belt even fits together properly (it's very hard to make even or semetric bends by hand).
After much wasted effort bending and unbending and rebending I decided to send the belt back to get a new crotch piece, as mine was clearly off. What I didn't realize at the time, was that the waist measurement was off as well (mainly because I could not even close the crotch band so wearing the belt to test it was out of the question).
When I got the belt back, I managed to wearing it for a day, maybe two before I discovered the waistband was also a proplem. I could not stand to send the belt back to Germany to be repaired again (especially since it would be just like ordering a whole new belt anyways). I gave up.
I had also learned throughout the process that I could work myself up into a frenzy, and still manage to orgasm while belted. That is to say, I could cum by visual stimulation alone. This was both a sad and exciting revelation at the same time. It meant, of course, that there would never truely be any real form of secure chastity belt for me, but it walso meant that if I ever did find a chastity device that I could wear it would be the perfect excuse for a woman to forbid me from masterbating ever again (since I could just orgasm while belted anyways, why bother to unlock it).
The belt had cost me approximately 915$ USD and the repair was 200$ including shipping. I sold the belt on ebay for under 200$. This rates among the worst usage I've ever had for money (right behind the university class I registered in, but forgot to attend and still had to pay for).
THE NEOSTEEL HIPBELT:
I ordered another Neosteel. Again I used the measuring kit. I had learned to take my time measuring. I was insanely thorough. I asked questions. I made sure I was doing it correctly this time. I am 100% convinced the measurements for the belt are/were correct.
The timing of this purchase however, could not have been worse. I was just about to end a relationship with my Mistress. She had very suddenly grown distant and I felt extremely neglected. I do not know what new stresses had entered her life, and she would not tell me but the relationship ended two days after the Neosteel Waistbelt arrived.
I took it out of the package and tried it on. I discovered immediately that it fit much much better then the original Neosteel belt, but it still had two very severe and nagging pressure points where it rested over the hip bone in the front. I took the belt off and put it back in the closet, in no mood to go to the effort of bending ito into a wearable shape. It was out of the box for a total of five minutes. It spent the next 18 months in my closet.
I recently had a friend try to convince me to pull it out and try to get it wearable. I began the long process of trying to bend it into shape last night, but after 3.5 hours of frustrated bending the pressure points remained. I first tried to make the belt a more ovoid shape because there was a large gap between my stomach and the front of the belt. The pressure points remained. Then I tried to bow the belt out in such away that it bowed out at the trouble spots. This ended up taking length off the waistband and so I could not even close the belt anymore (not that it mattered because the pressure points remained anyways). I unbent, rebent, sheifted, tweaked and played for almost 3 hours. I was going in circles.
My hips are now bruised, the plastic is wearing off the penis tube and the tips of myfingers are numb from process of struggling with the lock. I also knew exactly which unfinished edges would cut me if I was not careful and yet I still managed to skin the tip of my finger.
The Hip Belt is no back in the closet and I am convinced that's where it belongs.
THE MORAL OF THE STORY
I don't want want anyone to get the idea that Neosteel is was trying to take advantage of me, or over charging me. Mr. Mende has some of the best customer service I've ever seen and has been nothing but helpful to me.
I am convinced that chastity belts can work for some people. I am also convinced that for some people, no matter how are they try and how much effort or money they pour into the project they will never have a secure belt suitable for longterm wear.
Chastity makes a fantastic fantasy. It makes frustrating (not the good way) and expensive reality.
Page last updated 06-Sep-27 by: Altairboy@aol.com